8 Keys to Transform Your Life

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Every thought is self taught. Our mind takes thoughts and processes them throughout our body. When thoughts come into us, the ones we dwell upon will begin a transformation process within us either positive or negative. Things begin to line up in us and things happen to our physical being and mental processing based upon a collection of common thoughts which begin a programming for common thinking in us. This all happens without us being able to consciously pay attention to what is being processed within our brain because it started happening even before we were born through our mother and as a child at a time when the brain hasn’t yet developed to reason.

When we were a child growing up, our brain wasn’t developed enough to be able to make our own decisions with clear understanding. Our information was downloaded to us by our parents or caregivers and decisions were made for us by them. We were dependent upon them to receive our daily protection, sustenance such as food, and over all learning. Our beliefs were formed, our trust, fears, feelings, emotions, confidence, kindness, anger, insecurity, courage, joy, happiness, love, and all of which was based on our perception of what was happening to us in our environment. In essence, our parents and caregivers taught us everything they believed to be true and we learned from their perception to take it as our own truth.  Parents, do not condemn yourself, we all have done this.

Not all of these bits of information were truth but rather a vast majority of them were false for all of us. Growing up we didn’t know which information was really true from false. Then you factor in that our parents, or caregivers, mostly repeated what they were taught by their caregivers. Later in life they developed some of their own beliefs and when they had you as a child, they passed all this information on and you shared their perception. After all, there is no manual written for becoming the perfect parent, not that being a perfect parent is attainable at all.

Fear is taught. We aren’t given a spirit of fear by God when He creates us in our mothers womb through conception. Second Timothy 1:7; “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” It gets passed to us in our mothers womb or as a baby growing up. I am not saying that there isn’t some fear that is unfortunately warranted. We don’t want our children touching a hot stove, or walking out into the street. However, this world isn’t what God intended to be like for man to live in either. The enemy has created the worlds system of fears, not God.

Let’s take a look at what each of us could do when we understand what really happened because we can change as many of those false perceptions as we want. When we begin to realize that we have never truly known our power and gave it away to the enemy of our soul by early negative and toxic programming is when anyone can begin to make The 7 Habits for Transforming Your Life.

  • Habit 1: Transform Yourself by Renewing Your Thoughts

Everything starts with a thought and develops into a belief which ends up being shared by how one speaks with words how they perceive their life and world. To transform by renewed thinking involves balancing and renewing your resources, energy, and health to create a meaningful long-term optimal lifestyle. Be constantly improving one’s self in order to be a better human being and to achieve better results.

  • Habit 2: Become Dedicated to Your Truth

What is the true plan for your life. God creates everything and everyone with a purpose in His mind. This purpose was established before you were born. Jeremiah 29:11; “ For I know the thoughts and plans that I have for you, says the Lord, thoughts and plans for welfare and peace and not for evil, to give you hope in your final outcome.”

Proverbs 16:9; “A man’s mind plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps and makes them sure.”

No one can take the initiative for your life because no one else can make your decisions and realize how they align with life’s principles. Finding your own truth is the primary determining factor for effectiveness in your life. Your own truth is your own plan for which you were created. Taking responsibility for your choices and the subsequent consequences that follow will determine what you become and make of your life.

  • Habit 3: Begin at the End

God did, why should we be any different. When He created earth and man He had an end purpose in His mind. He wants us to look at the end purpose of ourselves, our future and look at everything we do in the present with our future in mind. Whatever one does today should be with what they see themselves as in the future, with their end in mind.

Isaiah 46:10; “Declaring the end from the beginning, and from ancient times the things that are not yet done, saying, My counsel shall stand, and I will do all my pleasure:”

Ecclesiastes 7:8a; “Better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof:”

Ecclesiastes 3:11; “He hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end.”

To clarify what your future looks like is going to add value to your life and life goals. Envision the ideal characteristics for each of your various roles and relationships in life. It is always better to try and foresee situations. Predict outcomes and then think of worst case scenarios, will help come up with informed decisions.

  • Habit 4: Put Love First

Putting love first “is” putting God first. This is such a sure principal that when you put love first you are “expressing” God through your life. When love flows from you, God flows out of you. God “IS” Love! We haven’t quite gotten that into our hearts and minds like we really should because the worlds definition of love isn’t God’s definition. There is NO love without God.

We were wired for Love by God. We are created in His image and likeness. This is why many struggle to fill the very hole that the lack of love creates inside of us. It can’t be filled without recognizing God in you. The world offers false perceptions of love. Such things as; money, position, stuff and more stuff, relationships based on our expectations, etc.

Planning ones life based on importance rather than urgency. We all broadcast our character values of which push you towards goals. These either enrich our roles with the relationships we have with others or sends us spiraling downward. We must evaluate if our efforts exemplify your desired character values. How one prioritizes their life is based upon how they characterize themselves both to themselves and to others. This brings success or failure to whatever area of life. Proactiveness toward positive character values results in success, where as reactiveness leads to failed plans and purposes.

  • Habit 5: Think Give – Give

When you keep the end in mind you look toward others as people you can provide a solution for in their life. As you empower others, you become empowered. When you give positive energy you receive positive energy. The very one who holds an answer for you can be the very one you need. Positive attracts positive. Think about this for a moment. When you empower someone with a “winning” solution you have added value into their life and now they can give back to you the same energy of value that you placed within them. This is the secret to winning in life.

It is a deceptive plan from evil to practice competition. Competition spells Not enough unless you are first all the time. Destructive energy is at work to force someone to lack what you want to gain. It spells Lack, and says there isn’t enough for everyone to go around. So many fight a dirty dog game to get to the top as the Big Dog. Then once at the top they have to fight even harder because everyone is looking to steal their position. Once at the top you realize that you are at the height of survival mode to protect that number one position of power and possessions.

The myth is that there is no shortage of any resources anywhere. Only the perception that competition puts out is what is recognized from such a mindset. There are plenty of possibilities and ideas that have yet to be received and inventions yet to be created.

When you strive for mutually beneficial solutions or agreements in your relationships you place a value upon them that is the same value you have of yourself. If only one person gets his or her way most of the time, respect has been cast to the wind along with understanding and love toward others. The better solution for the long term is to respect people by understanding that you have the solution to resolve their problem and they will want to reciprocate the same back to you. Everyone wins and no one loses.

When one has to win the others always lose some of their value. It is a multiplication of negative toxic energy. The one who wins used negative energy to overcome the loser and the loser is now left with defeated negative energy. You have no positive energy attracting greater synergy.

  • Habit 6: Synergize to Align

Combining the strengths of people through positive teamwork, so as to achieve goals no one person could have done alone. Everyone is a master of something and not everything. Positive capabilities can be put together to achieve increased results with two or more positive substances working together. Synergy becomes present.

The definition of synergy is; to increase the activity of (a substance). Synergy basically means that there is divine grace coupled with human activity that releases incredible power. In other words, the combined work of divine grace and human activity releases a power beyond us. The whole is greater than the sum of the parts. A poor environment of no trust and lack of loyalty has been created. The major component of synergy is trust.

The same substances of energy will cause synergy to take place: the cooperative action of two or more like substances, causing multiplication and even acceleration.  Remember, energy attracts like energy.

Words hold energy: therefore they are a living, breathing substance in the atmosphere that carry positive or negative charges of energy.  Once spoken into the atmosphere, those positive or negatively charged packets of energy become a greater forece of energy because like energies of substance are attracted to them.

Synergy with the Holy Spirit inside of you brings you into alignment with all things necessary for everything to fall into place.  Fusion is what causes alignment. Fusion is the coming together of two or more entities to form something much heavier that releases a great deal of energy that could not be released otherwise. Synergy requires alignment, alignment brings fusion. The weight of God is called His glory. When the energy of your spirit (your positive control system) is in alignment with the energy of God it causes a power of energy release that is greater than the sum of the parts. This is the Holy Spirit and your spirit co-creating as one.

  • Habit 7: Deposit Positive to Cancel the Negative

We each have a positive and negative control system. Everyone has negative and positive emotions that make up our words. Your positive control system when engaged is what will overcome negative circumstances and bring solutions even to the most complex matters. The negative control system when engaged causes mental break down of clarity and equals lack of solutions coming to mind. The mind shuts down and has mental blocks when negative toxic energy is being transmitted through your words.

  • Habit 8: Seek first to See and Understand anothers Perception, before giving yours

We all have two ears and one mouth. It takes double the effort to listen then it does to talk. When you seek to see and understand anothers point of view, they will feel compelled to reciprocate with listening with an open mind to what you have to say. Positive problem solving can be created by an atmosphere of caring with mutual respect, and trust is developed. Value is built into people who feel they are understood.

Most of us have a false perception of things unless we are willing to listen with an open mind to someone who wants to give from a true perception. Much misunderstanding can be cleared up along with avoiding situations where the problem doesn’t really exist.

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    With grace from our creator we carry the glorious Holy spirit with us. Tune in.

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